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Meet Patti

Patti Urban

Patti Urban

Patti M. Urban
Founder, Your End of Life Doula

My mission is to change the way we die. ~Patti

Official Bio

As an entrepreneur since 1996, and owner of several successful businesses, Patti continues to blaze new trails and take on challenges, finding ways to help families transition at the beginning of family life and at the end. Her new venture, Your End of Life Doula, is a doula coaching service specifically geared to patients facing terminal illnesses.  The concept was born out of her work with seniors and her observation of the suffering of her end-of-life clients and the gap that exists between hospitals, hospice, and the patient.  Its primary purpose is to empower individuals to make their own choices with regard to end of life.

Patti is the former owner of Comfort Keepers of Guilford, CT, the industry leader in providing in-home care that allows older adults and others needing assistance to live happy, fulfilling lives in the comfort of their own homes.  She also founded Legal-Eaze, a company that specializes in international adoption. Located in New York City, Legal-Eaze has assisted in the adoption process of over 10,000 children from countries such as China, Guatemala, Russia, Ukraine, Kazakhstan, and has strived to help families navigate the difficult and ever changing landscape of international adoption laws.

The Inside Track

Want to get to know Patti better? Here is the person behind the bio and about her life….

  • Patti is passionate about elder care and continues her work as member of the Board of Directors for Orchard House Adult Day Center in Branford, CT and the Shoreline Eldercare Alliance of Branford, CT
  • She is the mother of 3 daughters and 1 son, all adopted from China.
  • Patti is a Certified Senior Advisor and a Certified End of Life Doula
  • Patti is the co-host of the cable television show, Just Sayin’. The show appears on local public access television channels in Connecticut, and it has received substantial press coverage as “Connecticut’s version of The View”.  The show spotlights local businesses and addresses many current issues that affect not only Connecticut but nationally as well.
  • She’s a graduate of Fairleigh Dickinson University with a BS in Business Management and Paralegal Studies.
  • Community outreach is important to Patti. She offers her office space in Guilford free of charge to groups that need meeting space including monthly meetings for the Association of Women Business Leaders [AWBL]
  • She is the founder of Shoreline Area Senior Network (SASN), a networking and educational group for professionals serving the senior community along the CT Shoreline.
  • Patti worked as a paralegal for 18 years for Fortune 500 companies in both Manhattan and New Jersey in the fields of corporate, international, and franchise law.

“The country is aging at a rapid pace and there aren’t enough care givers to go around. We have this silver tsunami coming in. They are not as compliant as this generation. They don’t follow the doctor’s instructions, instead they’re going to question it, and they aren’t going to take no for an answer.” ~Patti


“Look at all the people that live in nursing homes. They are alive but are not living. Every time they get a cough then 911 gets a call. They go through their life savings! Is this what these people wanted? Let people die naturally instead of a prolonged death that costs millions of dollars.” ~Patti